CommitmentSpell for Ex
Our commitment spell for ex helps transform hesitation into wholehearted devotion. It guides your ex toward genuine, lasting commitment.
About The Commitment Spell for Ex
Hesitation around commitment often comes from fear, past hurt, or unresolved doubts. Our Commitment Spell for Ex works to dissolve these blocks and open the heart to genuine devotion.
Baba Ali guides the spiritual energy toward long-term stability and trust, rather than forcing an outcome against anyone’s will.
- Dissolve fear of commitment
- Encourage honesty and openness
- Build long-term trust
- Strengthen emotional security
- Guide toward a devoted relationship
There is a particular kind of heartache that comes from loving someone deeply while watching them hesitate at the idea of true commitment. Perhaps you have been together for years without the relationship progressing, or your ex speaks fondly of you but resists the idea of getting back together fully. The Commitment Spell for Ex was created for exactly this situation.
How The Spell Works
1. Consultation
2. Spell Casting
3. Spiritual Alignment
4. Results & Devotion
5. Donation
This spell is most powerful during a Waxing Gibbous Moon, associated with building and growing connection.
- Full name & photo of you and your ex
- Date of birth (you and your ex)
- Details about the commitment hesitation
Many clients report first signs within 3–7 days. Timing varies.
Signs This Spell Is Working
Direct conversations about the future — Your ex or partner begins initiating conversations about commitment rather than avoiding them.
Reduced defensiveness — Old walls and hesitation noticeably soften during emotional conversations.
Concrete plans emerge — Vague intentions begin turning into specific plans and timelines.
Increased vulnerability — Your partner shares fears or past wounds they had previously kept hidden.
Dreams reflecting commitment — Clients often report their partner mentioning unusual dreams about a shared future.
Consistent, reliable behavior — Actions begin to match words more consistently than before.
Who This Spell Is For
Commitment-Phobic PartnersRelationships where love is present but genuine commitment has stalled.
Hesitant ExesSituations where an ex wants reconciliation someday but avoids taking real steps.
Fear-Based PatternsPartners whose past wounds or trauma create resistance to full commitment.
Real People. Real Stories. Real Results.
Here is what some clients have shared.
“He finally opened up about wanting a future together.”
“She stopped pulling away and started planning our future.”
“After years of hesitation, he proposed. Thank you Baba Ali.”
Materials & Sacred Items Required
This ritual draws on herbs and candles associated with courage and emotional healing, chosen to dissolve the fear-based blockages preventing full commitment.
You are only asked to contribute toward the cost of these materials — the spiritual practice itself is never sold.
Understanding the specific source of hesitation, where known, helps focus the ritual’s healing work on the right underlying wound.
For Clients in Australia
Baba Ali prepares the Commitment ritual for clients in every Australian state and territory. Clients use it when love is there but the next step keeps stalling: moving in, engagement, or planning a future together.
Messages are answered 24/7, and call times are confirmed in your own time zone: AEST or AEDT on the east coast, ACST in Adelaide and Darwin, AWST in Perth. You are told the cost of materials before anything the practitioner prepares it, and you can ask for it in Australian dollars.
Read more about consultations for Australian clients, including privacy under Australian law and local support services, or the ethics behind every ritual.
Does It Work? An Honest Answer
Nobody can prove a spell works the way a medicine is proven. What Baba Ali can offer is what has been seen in practice. Baba Ali’s own records put the historical success rate at about 95%. That figure is practitioner-reported. Nobody independent has checked it, and it is not a promise about your case.
Most clients who notice a change report first signs within 3 to 7 days. A first sign is small: a message, a softer tone, a reply where there used to be silence. It is not a finished reunion, and some situations take longer. Timing varies with how recent the split was, how much contact there is, and how the other person feels.
The work does not remove anyone’s free will. If the other person has truly closed the door, a ritual will not force it open. It can support openness where some feeling remains. It sits beside real steps, not instead of them: honest conversation, space when space is needed, and counselling if you want it. No result is guaranteed, and you are never asked to pay for an outcome, only for materials.
When They Say They Are Not Ready
“I am not ready”
Sometimes this is true. Sometimes it is a softer way of saying no. The work aims at what is blocking a decision, such as fear or pressure. It does not force an answer, and it cannot make anyone propose, move in or name a date.
A situationship that will not become a relationship
Ask yourself what you want and whether you have said it out loud. The ritual can support openness to something steadier. It cannot turn a casual arrangement into a commitment if the other person wants it to stay casual.
Fear of commitment
Fear usually comes from past hurt, and it often eases slowly. That is why this page gives 2 to 4 weeks for deeper shifts. A calm, low-pressure approach from you matters as much as the ritual.
Is This the Right Step for You?
A short check before you book. This work is a good fit if:
- You want the relationship itself, with the effort that comes with it.
- You can accept that the other person makes their own choices.
- You are ready to change what led to the split, not only to get things back to how they were.
Wait, or speak to someone else first, if:
- The other person has asked for no contact for safety reasons, or a protection order is in place.
- The relationship involved fear, threats or violence. Call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 first.
- You want control or revenge rather than reconnection.
- You are in acute distress. Lifeline answers on 13 11 14, at any hour.
For couples counselling alongside spiritual work, Relationships Australia is on 1300 364 277. The consultation is a good place to talk through which step suits you.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can this spell work if my partner has always been afraid of commitment, even before me?▾
Yes, this ritual addresses deep-seated fear-based patterns regardless of how long they have existed.
What if my ex says they want to reconcile but keeps delaying?▾
This is a common pattern this ritual specifically addresses, helping dissolve the hesitation behind repeated delays.
How long does it take to see genuine commitment emerge?▾
Many clients report meaningful shifts within 2 to 4 weeks, as deeper fear-based blockages take slightly longer to dissolve than surface-level hesitation.
Does this ritual force someone to commit against their will?▾
No, it clears fear and hesitation so genuine feelings can express themselves naturally — it never overrides true free will.
Can this use for a current partner, not just an ex?▾
Yes, many clients use this ritual to help a current partner move past hesitation toward marriage or deeper commitment.
What if the hesitation is rooted in a past relationship trauma?▾
This ritual is particularly effective in these cases, as it works directly to heal the underlying wound causing the resistance.
The Ancestral Tradition Behind This Spell
Commitment-focused rituals draw on ancestral courage and healing invocations, traditionally used to help individuals overcome fear-based patterns that block them from fully embracing love.
My teachers emphasized that fear of commitment almost always traces back to an earlier wound — a past betrayal, a difficult family pattern, an old heartbreak — rather than a genuine lack of feeling.
This ritual works by gently healing that underlying wound alongside clearing the immediate hesitation, addressing root cause rather than surface symptom.
I continue to apply this understanding carefully in every consultation, listening for the deeper story behind a client’s specific situation before beginning any ritual work.
Why Clients Trust Baba Ali For This Ritual
Clients trust this ritual because it addresses genuine underlying fear rather than simply pressuring someone toward commitment.
My certification with the African National Healers Association and the National Spiritual Alliance reflects thirty years of ethical, accountable spiritual practice.
Clients across Europe and Australia return to this ritual because it produces lasting commitment rooted in healed fear, not a forced or temporary change.
You are never asked to pay for a guaranteed outcome — only for sacred materials, with any donation given freely afterward.
What To Expect After Your Ritual Is Complete
In the weeks following the ritual, many clients notice their partner or ex initiating more direct, honest conversations about the future.
I encourage patience during this period, as healing fear-based patterns takes slightly longer than clearing surface-level hesitation.
If change feels gradual, this reflects genuine healing taking root rather than a superficial shift — deeper transformation tends to be more lasting.
Common Concerns Before Booking Your Consultation
Many clients worry this ritual might force someone into commitment they do not genuinely want. It does not — it clears fear so true feelings can be expressed naturally.
Others wonder if their situation is a lost cause after years of hesitation. In my experience, longstanding patterns can still shift significantly with proper spiritual healing.
If you are unsure whether hesitation reflects fear or genuine disinterest, I will help you assess this honestly during your consultation.
Preparing For Your Consultation
Before reaching out, it helps to reflect on how long the commitment hesitation has been a pattern — whether it began with you specifically, or whether your partner has always struggled with similar fears in past relationships.
Many clients feel frustrated describing years of hesitation from someone they love deeply. This frustration is completely understandable, and sharing it honestly during consultation helps me address both the emotional and spiritual dimensions of your situation.
I ask that you approach our conversation with patience toward your own situation as well, since healing fear-based patterns takes real time, even when spiritual work accelerates that process considerably.
Free Consultation, No Obligation
There is no cost and no obligation to reach out for a confidential consultation about the hesitation you have been experiencing. Loving someone who struggles to commit is exhausting, and you deserve a space to talk it through honestly.
During our conversation, I will listen to your specific situation and give you an honest assessment of whether this ritual can help, always grounded in genuine care for both you and the person you love.
Whatever you decide, I hope our conversation brings clarity to a situation that has likely felt confusing and painful for far too long.
Confidential, Always
Every consultation about commitment hesitation remains strictly confidential, giving you space to speak honestly about a frustration that can otherwise feel isolating to carry alone.
If you are ready to explore whether this ritual can help the person you love move past their hesitation, I welcome you to reach out whenever feels right for you. Clear boundaries strengthen any discussion of commitment spell for ex.